Whatever may be said, who ever may say it - to
determine the truth of it, is wisdom -
Thirukural
Reflections 2001 : Chinthanaigal
Reflection by Jayalakshmi Satyendra
Saturday 30 June 2001
"...When you feel trapped you ask yourself, 'Does this issue
have mainly to do with me?' Then change your behaviour. 'Does it
primarily have to do with the other people who are nonetheless
inside my circle of influence?' Then change your methods of
influence. 'Does it have to do with people and things that are
only in my circle of concern?' Then you can change your attitude
towards it. There is always something you can do. If you accept
what is imposed on you without question, without creating a
proactive response will that take you where you want to go? Will
it help you be what you want to be? Will it help you do what you
want to do? If not, don�t do it. There is another way...�
(Stephen Covey)
Saturday 23 June 2001
�...Real life is doing something which you love to do with
your whole being so that there is no inner contradiction, no war
between what you are doing and what you think you should do.
Life is then a completely integrated process in which there is
tremendous joy. But that can happen only when you are not
psychologically depending on anybody, or any society, when there
is complete detachment inwardly, for only then there is a
possibility of really loving what you do. If you are in a state
of total revolution, it does not matter whether you garden, or
become a prime minister, or do something else; you will love
what you do, and out of that love there comes an extra ordinary
feeling of creativeness.� (J.
Krishnamurthi
in �Think on These Things�)
Saturday16 June 2001
"...Courage is perhaps, the most important attribute of
all...After Stalin�s death, Krushchev addressed the Supreme
Soviet and denounced his predecessor�s horrific crimes against
the Soviet people. Many in the audience were stunned � the scale
of Stalin�s evil was mind-boggling. Finally, from the back of
the hall, a voice rang out: �Comrade Krushchev you were there.
You were with Stalin. Why didn�t you stop him?� Momentarily
flustered, Krushchev�s eyes raked the assembly. �Who said that�
he demanded. �Who said that?� he roared again. Those around the
impertinent questioner sank lower in their seats. No voice was
raised. No hand went up. After a terrible silence, Krushchev
said, �Now you know why.� The questioner that day was no more
willing to stand up to Krushchev than Krushchev had been willing
to stand up to Stalin. The point was made... � (*Gary
Hamel in �Leading the Revolution�)
Saturday 9 June 2001
"...The Ceylon Tamil League was brought into existence by
political necessity (in 1922) but politics is not its
raison-detre. It has far higher aims in view, namely to keep
alive and propagate these precious ideals
throughout Ceylon, Southern India and the Tamil Colonies, to
promote the
union and
solidarity of Tamilakam, the Tamil Land. We
should keep alive and propagate these ideals throughout Ceylon
and promote the
union and solidarity of what we have been proud to call Tamil
Eelam. We desire to preserve our individuality as a people,
make ourselves worthy of our inheritance...We
are not enamoured of that cosmopolitanism which would make of us
neither fish, fowl, nor red herring. That does not mean that
we are to be selfish and work only for the interests of the
Tamil Community. Who have done more for the welfare of all
Ceylon than the Tamil? Who has fought more vigorously for the
welfare of the Sinhalese in the "Dark days of 1915" when our
Sinhalese brethren were in distress and helpless ? Who came to
their rescue but the Tamils?
That statue which was to be the grateful memorial of the help
rendered, may (as proposed in some quarters) be flung into
the sea. But the Tamils are not going to abandon the proud duty
and privilege of service to all our brothers of every race and
creed . But
we do object strongly to being bullied or terrorised, we
object to being the underdogs of anybody. We mean to make
ourselves strong and also to work for the common good..." (Sir
Ponnambalam Arunachalam at the formation of the Ceylon Tamil
League, 1922)
Saturday 2 June 2001
"...Profound insights come out of a cocktail of unexpected
problems, novel experiences, random conversations, and newly
discovered facts. The goal is to mix this cocktail again and
again. Indeed the goal is to be the mixer � to encompass within
yourself and your team all the elements that combine to produce
bursts of deeply creative insights. Not only is this an
individual imperative, it is an organisational imperative. No
single individual can encompass all that is changing in the
world. Your cocktail shaker is just so big...� (*Gary
Hamel in �Leading the Revolution�)
Saturday 26 May 2001
"...I conceive of a legitimate purpose in my heart, and set
out to accomplish it. I make this purpose the centralising point
of my thoughts. It may take the form of a spiritual ideal, or it
may be a worldly object according to my nature at the time
being; but whichever it is, I steadily focus my thought-forces
upon the object which I set before me. I make this purpose my
supreme duty, and devote myself to its attainment, not allowing
my thoughts to wander away into ephemeral fancies, longings and
imaginings. This is the royal road to self-control and true
concentration of thought. Even if I fail again and again to
accomplish my purpose (as I necessarily must until weakness is
overcome), the strength of character gained is the measure of my
true success, and this forms a new starting point for future
power and triumph...� (*James
Allen, author of �As You Think�)
"...We need hardly say that from the traditional point of
view there could hardly be found a stronger condemnation of the
present social order than in the fact that the man at work is no
longer doing what he likes best, but rather what he must, and in
the general belief that a man can only be really happy when he
'gets away' and is at play... ...Our hankering for a state of
leisure or leisure state is the proof of the fact that most of
us are working at a task to which we could never have been
called by anyone but a salesman, certainly not by God or by our
own natures. Traditional craftsmen whom I have known in
the East cannot be dragged away from their work, and will work
overtime to their own pecuniary loss. We have gone so far as to
divorce work from culture, and to think of culture as something
to be acquired in hours of leisure; but there can be only a
hothouse and unreal culture where work itself is not its means;
if culture does not show itself in all we make, we are not
cultured..." (Ananda
K.Coomaraswamy in
*Christian
and Oriental Philosophy of Art )
Saturday 19 May 2001
�The techniques and skills that really make a difference in
human interaction are the ones that almost naturally flow from a
truly independent character. So the place to begin building any
relationship is inside ourselves, inside our circle of
influence, our own character. As we become independent �
proactive, centered in correct principles, values driven and
able to organize and execute around the priorities in our life
with integrity � we can then choose to become interdependent �
capable of building rich, enduring, highly productive
relationships with other people....� (Stephen R. Covey)
Thursday 10 May 2001 -
third anniversary of launch of tamilnation.org
"...Look to this day .... In it lies all the realities and
verities of existence, the bliss of growth, the splendour of
action, the glory of power. For yesterday is but a dream and
tomorrow is only a vision. But today, well lived, makes every
yesterday a dream of happiness and every tomorrow a vision of
hope. There is only one courage, and that is the courage to let
go of the past, not to collect it, not to accumulate it, not to
cling to it. We all cling to the past, and because we cling to
the past we become unavailable to the present..."
- Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh.
"...If I try to be like
him or like what he says, who will be like me ?.."
Jewish proverb
- quotes contributed by a friend from
Bengal, residing in Melbourne, Australia
Saturday 5 May 2001
"...Most of the people in this world have no
faith in spiritual values. To them the human mind is all in all,
and this leads them to a variety of reflections and
speculations. Some of them call themselves sceptics, others
agnostics and yet others pride themselves on being pure
materialists.
The truth is veiled
by our own ignorance. We do not carry our search after it far
enough. Having exercised our intellect up to a certain limit we
feel there is no hope for further discovery or investigation.
This attitude of the mind is the result of the study of Western
systems of philosophy which, from the Eastern point of view, is
barren, and leads us nowhere, beyond speculations and guesses at
truth....
Almost all the ancient thinkers, saints and
sages have pointed out an unfailing practical path by pursuing
which, one may free oneself of all doubts and uncertainties and
realize the meaning and purpose of life.
Their method of
approach to truth is fairly scientific. They do not
dogmatize nor play upon the credulity of our faith. They simply
point out a path and lay down certain definite conditions for
attaining it. The final success on this path depends entirely on
the aspirant's own effort and self-investigation...From our
point of view there are two kinds of rational faith in the
reality of spiritual life.
1. An indirect faith which we have from the experiences and
verdicts of such dauntless seekers after truth as had the
courage,
endurance and
iron will to struggle through the thorny path of self-realization and
whose words, according to their antecedent and
personal integrity, have to be trusted.
2.. Faith drawn from direct experience - a thing which no
one can possibly doubt or deny.
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Mouni Sadhu�s book serves as a precious
evidence of indirect faith which we have closely and correctly
to investigate and ascertain for ourselves..." (Dr.M.Hafiz
Syed, in the Preface to Mouni Sadhu's In Days of Great Peace,
1953)
Saturday 28 April 2001
�With a single-pointed mind, if an individual can entertain
any single resolute determination and act consistently towards
its success, achievement must certainly result. But invariably,
man, victimised by his ego, entertains hundreds of desires,
often mutually contradictory, and therefore, comes to play upon
these fields with an impoverished and exhausted mental strength.
This is psychologically, what we call �self cancellation of
thoughts�. When this comes to plague the mental zone, it
exhausts all the potentialities of man and loots away all his
chances of success.�- Swami Chinmayananda
�There is a vital difference between efficiency and
effectiveness. You may be driving down the highway, enjoying
great travelling weather, and getting terrific mileage. You may
be very efficient. But if you are headed south down the
California Coast on Highway 101 and your destination is New York
City � some three thousand miles to the east � you�re not being
effective.� - Stephen Covey
Saturday 21 April
2001
"Is there something I feel I could do to make a
difference? Think about it. It may require letting go - of
illusory paradigms, rationalising, wants, urgency addiction�
even your comfort zone. But, deep inside, in all honesty of
heart, do you feel there is something you could do, some
contribution you could make, some legacy you could leave that
would impact your family.. your community, your society in a
positive way? If there is, we encourage you to act on it. As
Gandhi
said, �We must become the change we seek in the world�.
Wherever you are, in terms of becoming principle centered, we
encourage you to start exercising the attributes of your heart.
Make a promise and keep it. Set a goal and achieve it. There is
peace in it. As Emerson said: �Nothing can bring you peace but
yourself. Nothing can bring you peace but the triumph of
principles�."(Stephen
Covey, Roger & Rebecca Merill from �First Things First�)
Saturday 14 April 2001
"..Anything truly revolutionary is created by a few who see
what is true and are willing to live according to that truth;
but to discover what is true demands freedom from tradition,
which means freedom from all fears..."
(Jiddu
Krishnamurthi)
Saturday 7 April 2001
"...the secret of happiness is simple: find out what you
truly love to do and then direct all your energy towards doing
it. If you study the happiest, healthiest, most satisfied people
of our world, you will see that each and every one of them has
found their passion in life, and then spent their days pursuing
it. Once you are concentrating your mind power and energy on a
pursuit that you love, abundance flows into your life, and all
your desires are fulfilled with ease and grace..... your passion
must in some way, improve or serve the lives of others.
Victor Frankl said it more elegantly than I ever could when he
wrote: 'Success, like happiness, cannot be pursued. It must
ensue. And it only does so as the unintended side effect of
one's personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself'...
The purpose of life is to have a life's purpose..." -
* Robin S. Sharma in
The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari : A Fable About Fulfilling Your
Dreams and Reaching Your Destiny, 1999
Saturday 31 March 2001
"...Everyone is born blind and everybody has the capacity not
to be blind. Everybody is born blind because at birth we are
bound to be unconscious, unaware. It is only through life and
its experiences, good and bad, painful and blissful, that one
slowly slowly wakes up. It is only through a rich life - and by
rich I mean a lived life. One who has been in the thick of life
one day becomes capable of opening his eyes. In that very moment
one passes through a radical transformation. Then life is never
the same again..." - Osho
"...We are constantly being astonished at the
amazing discoveries in the field of violence. But I maintain
that far more undreamt-of and seemingly impossible discoveries
will be made in the field of nonviolence..." - Mahatma Gandhi
Saturday 24 March 2001
"To know what you prefer instead of humbly saying Amen to
what the World tells you, you ought to prefer, is to keep your
soul alive"-
R L Stevenson
"Maybe being oneself is always an acquired taste"-
Patricial Hampe
"Your work is to discover your work and then with all your
heart to give yourself to it"-
Buddha
Saturday 17 March 2001
" If the rhetoric flowing from (and through)
the United Nations, transnational corporations, regional
alliances, or Western governments seems to imply that we exist
in a state of peaceful multi polarity, it is only because we
cannot hear the voices that have been marginalized by those very
institutions. A New World (Dis)order is evident everywhere in
the language of contemporary conflict: displacement, insecurity,
oppression, starvation, terrorism, warfare, and genocide. The
creeping nature of these crises, manifest in the continual
flight of populations around the globe, is proof of the state�s
inability to secure order. The "state" half of the
"nation-state" no longer dominates international relations. The
state certainly has a role to play, but a less and less
exclusive one as tensions arise within states instead of between
them... " (Kevin
Kuswa in
Finding the Kurds a Way: Kurdistan and the
discourse of the nation-state)
"..No one finds it easy to live
uncomplainingly and fearlessly with the thesis that human
reality is constantly being made and unmade, and that anything
like a stable essence is constantly under threat.." (Edward W. Said, author of
The End of The Peace Process: Oslo and After)
Saturday 10 March 2001
"...
Gandhi's
secretary, Mahadev Desai, began to read aloud the second chapter
of the
Bhagavad Gita,
one of the most memorable pieces of mystical poetry anywhere in
the world. The last eighteen verses of this chapter, Gandhi
wrote, have 'been inscribed on the tablet of my heart.' They
offer a practical, inspiring portrait of the man or woman who is
rich in spiritual wisdom:
They are forever free who renounce all selfish desires
And break away from the ego-cage of I, me, and mine
To be united with the Lord of Love.
This is the supreme state.
Attain thou this
And pass from death to immortality. |
As I watched, Gandhiji's eyes closed in concentration. His
absorption in the verses was so complete that you could almost
see the words filling his small frame. Suddenly I understood the
answer to the question I had come with. Here was the source of
all his wealth - his power, his love, his wisdom, his tireless
service.
He had
turned his back on his little 'I, ' his ego; now he lived in
all.
In every one of us there is this source of power -
unsuspected for the most part, seldom harnessed. When we are
pushed and pulled by petty urges, the Gita would say, we are not
living to our fullest. We are not using even a small part of the
tremendous wealth we have within. Trying to grab things for
ourselves closes the door on this vast treasury and locks it
tight. Only when we give to the rest of life does it begin to
open.
To come and go from this treasury freely, we have to remove
every trace of selfish desire from our hearts. Here many good
people lose interest. "Give up my desires No, thanks! My desires
are all I've got. Without them, life wouldn't be worth living."
They are right. Desire is power, and without the immense power
of desire no one can make any progress in the direction of real
happiness. What has to go is not desire but selfish desire.
In a sense, this is a matter of spiritual engineering. We
have to redirect our desires so that their power runs in
selfless channels - in other words, to turn purely personal
passions into a universal passion for the welfare of all. This
is a terribly difficult transformation. But the encouraging part
is that when people with strong selfish motives are able to
transform their desires, they become dynamos of selfless
service. Those with a lot of physical passion, for example, can
find a spiritual passion to match.
Look at the lives of the world's foremost spiritual figures.
It is not necessarily the man or woman who has always led a
respectable life, the person who is satisfied with little, who
finds spiritual fulfillment. Often those with a remarkable
capacity for causing trouble go far when they get control over
their desires . These are people who cannot be satisfied by the
usual pleasures, so they resort to raising difficulties all over
the place. When at last they are ready to transform their
passions, they still have enough vital capital to take them a
long, long way..."
(Eknath
Easwaran in Climbing the Blue Mountain - A Guide for the
Spiritual Journey, Penguin Books, 1992)
Saturday 3 March 2001
"When I visited South Africa in May of 1991, ...I visited the
ANC's headquarters in downtown Johannesburg; a scant few weeks
earlier the organization had been considered as terrorist, and
no legitimacy at all attached to it. I was stunned by the
complete reversal. Speaking to Walter Sisulu, who had been
exiled for almost thirty years and was second only to Mandela in
authority and prestige, I asked him how the transformation had
been possible. What exactly did the ANC do to turn defeat into
victory?
"You must remember," he said, "that during the eighties we
were beaten in South Africa; the organization was wrecked by the
police, our bases in neighboring countries were routinely
attacked by the South African army, our leaders were in jail or
in exile or killed. We then realized that our only hope was to
concentrate on the international arena, and there to
de-legitimize apartheid. We organized in every major Western
city; we initiated committees, we prodded the media, we held
meetings and demonstrations, not once or twice, but thousands of
times. We organized university campuses, and churches, and labor
unions, and businesspeople, and professional groups."
He paused for a moment and then said something that I shall
never forget as long as I live: "Every victory that we
registered in London, or Glasgow, or Iowa City, or Toulouse, or
Berlin, or Stockholm gave the people at home a sense of hope,
and renewed their determination not to give up the struggle. In
time we morally isolated the South African regime and its policy
of apartheid so that even though militarily we could not do much
to hurt them, in the end they came to us, asking for
negotiations. We never changed or retreated from our basic
program, our central demand: one person, one vote." -
*Edward
W.Said in 'The End of The Peace Process:Oslo and After', April
2000
(Quote contributed by
Suppiah Mahalingam from Canada)
Saturday, 24 February 2001
"...Whatever you do, you need courage. Whatever course you
decide upon, there is always someone to tell you that you are
wrong. There are always difficulties arising that tempt you that
your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow
it to an end requires some of the same courage that a soldier
needs. Peace has its victories, but it takes brave men and women
to win them..."- Emerson
"...Our lives begin and end the day we become silent about
things that matter..."- Martin Luther King
Saturday, 17 February 2001
"...It is open to a war resister to judge between the
combatants and wish success to the one who has justice on his
side. By so judging he is more likely to bring peace between the
two rather than remaining a mere spectator..." -Mahatma
Gandhi
"..The hottest place in hell is reserved for those who remain
neutral in times of great moral conflict." -
Martin Luther King
Saturday, 10 February 2001
"... The nature of the grievance matters...
The nature of the organisation putting forth the grievance
matters as well. Intelligence is important ... to understand how
the organisation works and how its decision making process can
be affected... So called 'get tough' measures against terrorist
groups can have unintended consequences. Trying to 'decapitate'
a movement may radicalise the whole movement... create
mythologies of martyrdom, or feed paranoia and secretiveness
(which makes the movements even harder to penetrate for reasons
of either understanding motivations or foiling actions)... In
the event that organisations are primarily motivated by a desire
for recognition, how should policy makers respond? Should the
government recognise the organisations and eliminate their
motivation for terrorism? Since terrorist actions most often are
considered newsworthy events by media organisations, it is
beyond governments' control whether the actions gain attention
or not. Governments can play an effective role, however, in
influencing how terrorist events are portrayed to the public,
and thus influence (but not control) how the public interprets
those events........"
United States Institute for Peace - Special Report by Jon
B.Altman, Martha Crenshaw, Teresita Schaffer and Paul Wilkinson,
May 1999 on How Terrorism Ends
".. Fellow citizens, we cannot escape history. We will be
remembered in spite of ourselves. No personal significance, or
insignificance, will spare one or another of us. The fiery trial
through which we pass, will light us down, in honor or dishonor,
to the latest generation.... We shall nobly save, or meanly
lose, the last best hope of earth." President Abraham
Lincoln in his 1862 Annual Message, Quoted in the book, " The
Healing of America" by Marianne Williamson, Simon &
Schuster,1997 (Quote contributed by
Suppiah
Mahalingam from Canada)
Saturday, 3
February 2001
"...We must never forget, that under modern conditions of
life, science and technology, all war has become greatly
brutalized and that no one who joins in it, even in
self-defense, can escape becoming also in a measure brutalized.
Modern war cannot be limited in its destructive method and the
inevitable debasement of all participants... A fair scrutiny of
the last two World Wars makes clear the steady intensification
in the inhumanity of the weapons and methods employed by both,
the aggressors and the victors. In order to defeat Japanese
aggression, we were forced, ... to employ a technique of
unrestricted submarine warfare, not unlike that which 25 years
ago was the proximate cause of our entry into World War I. In
the use of strategic air power the Allies took the lives of
hundreds of thousands of civilians in Germany and in Japan . . .
we as well as our enemies have contributed to the proof that the
central moral problem is war and not its methods..."
Harry L.Stimson, US Secretary of State 1929-1933, 'The Nurenberg
Trial: Landmark in Law', Foreign Affairs, 1947
Saturday, 27 January 2001
"... Within the same cultural tradition, a
number of political and religious symbols of greater or lesser
importance exist, and some of these have more continuity and
have greater relevance as representing cultural boundaries. It
is not necessary for these symbols to be interrelated as a
systemic whole. It is true that these symbols often fuse each
other's meanings and are transformed to convey a collective or
synthetic meaning; but the fusion, transformation and synthesis
occur in their use to conceptualise identity. We can say that
the symbols of cultural boundaries are like books in a library:
an individual may organize his knowledge through a selective
reading of books.
To the question, "What is your group
identity?" a Tamil may answer by identifying his jati title or
jati name, his language, occupation, religious or political
affiliation Depending on the context and who the questioner is,
the answers would vary.
.....language is not the sole emblem of collective
identity among the Tamils. The Tamils are divided into
several jati groups, each group having distinctive ritual status
and political power. The emblems which denote or identify ritual
status and political power are jati name and jati title,
respectively...
An individual has a coherent system of self
and group identity but what this system does is to enable the
individual to employ and deploy multiple identities in his
lifetime and in different experiential contexts. In other words,
there is no set pattern of identities that remain static. The
individual knows what "appropriate" identity to dramatize, and
knows how to respond to the dramatisation of the "appropriate"
identity by others..."
Jacob Pandian in Caste, Nationalism, and Ethnicity : an
interpretation of Tamil cultural history and social order
Saturday, 20
January 2001
"...Numerical weakness comes from having to prepare against
possible attacks; numerical strength, from compelling our
adversary to make these preparations against us.... Thus we may
know that there are five essentials for victory: (1) He will win
who knows when to fight and when not to fight. (2) He will win
who knows how to handle both superior and inferior forces. (3)
He will win whose army is animated by the same spirit throughout
all its ranks. (4) He will win who, prepared himself, waits to
take the enemy unprepared. (5) He will win who has military
capacity and is not interfered with by the sovereign. Hence the
saying: If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not
fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but
not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a
defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will
succumb in every battle..." ( from
Sun
Tsu on the Art of War)
Saturday, 13
January 2001
"...Tibet Online aims to counteract the disadvantages Tibetans face in their
struggle against the vast resources of the Chinese government, while providing
new employment opportunities to help bring Tibetan exiles
into the modern world on their own terms. We level the playing field by
leveraging the Internet's ability to harness international grassroots support
for Tibet's survival, while at the same time helping Tibetans involved in these
efforts pick up highly
valuable skills..." (from
Tibet Online
- see also
The Fourth World, Nations without a State)
"He who concentrates on any one thing with singleness of purpose, will
ultimately acquire the capacity to do everything...."
Mahatma Gandhi
Saturday, 6
January 2001
"...A hundred years ago, paradox
meant error to the scientific mind. But exploring such phenomena
as the nature of light, electromagnetism; quantum mechanics and
relativity theory, physical science has matured over the past
century, to the point where it is increasingly recognized that
at a certain level, reality is paradoxical... Mystics have
spoken to us through the ages
in terms of paradox. Is it possible that we are beginning to
see a meeting ground between science and religion? When we are
able to say that "a human is both mortal and eternal at the same
time" and "light is both a wave and a particle at the same
time", we have begun to speak the same language. Is it possible
that the path of spiritual growth that proceeds from religious
superstition to scientific scepticism may indeed ultimately lead
us to a genuine religious reality..." - M.Scott Peck in the
*Road
Less Travelled
Continued
Reflections 2000.........
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