On the 1st of June 2006, I had the privilege to read
a poem written by Arugan from Italy: Karpu enpathu nambikkai. It is Arugan's
poem which acted as catalyst to writing this piece.
Some long while ago, when I was working for my first
degree, I wrote an essay on Inculturation. The
professor who marked the paper had the good sense to
mark it "A". Bless his heart! However, this upper crust
American, wrote in red ink in the margins, with his
indecipherable scribble. 'Had you not discussed the
archaic concept of Karpoo I would have given you
A*'
Westerners except in exceptional cases always seem to
miss the point in understanding alien and ancient
cultures. I'll say it again there are exceptions a
plenty. This is a considered opinion. Unwittingly
perhaps they seem to have not over come the 'civilising
concept'. There is an element of sub-conscious feeling
of superiority. Except a few avant-garde intellectuals,
most western academicians seem to think, any thing
foreign has to be redeemed from its primitive
ignorance. Hence there is a sense of false altruistic
propulsion to emancipate the under-developed souls from
oppression. Of course, in every culture - whether
Western or Eastern there are both good and bad. But it
is utterly ludicrous or blatant arrogance for some one
to think, let alone suggest, that the Tamils of Eelam -
an ancient stock of people, should be emancipated from
the concept of Karpu.
Karpu is a core value of the Tamil culture. Any good
society will promote freedom and liberty. But in the
name of freedom, one should not give way to license.
Licentious living has produced far greater evil. Most
ancient Eastern religions including Christianity [by
the way it is not a Western religion] advance the
concept of human freedom and responsibility. No
religion in its right mind, promotes a permissive
society nor a repressive society. None should
misinterpret as if I'm hinting to promote illiberal
restrictions on personal freedom.
I have been in familial contact with Scandinavia and
its splendid people since 1972. I was told by
Westerners [both Europeans and North Americans] that
Sweden and its adjoining countries have permissive
societies. I felt disgusted when I learnt that in
Denmark even paedophiles could run their own website in
the name of liberty and free-speech. I cannot comment
further because only a sick mind would engage in such
atrocity. It is indeed laughable when academicians with
their own cultural-glasses, bias, vested-interests and
in-bread prejudices try to judge and interpret ancient
cultures. If some one were to say casteism, dowry
system, oppression of weaker sections of society,
child-labour to name only a few - that all these are
oppressive and must be abolished. Most decent Tamils
would say. Yes, of course yes! Karpu - modesty,
chastity, loyalty, beauty, godliness, self-control,
virginity in terms of spirituality etc etc ─
these qualities are oppressive? One could be childish
or churlish in advancing such an ill-conceived
position.
The Tamils want a free society but not a permissive
society.
In my recent cursory readings I found an informative
paper written by a Sweden-based academician who has
produced some good materials regarding Tamil struggle.
I shall refer to that paper later but first a word
about the Tamil leader Mr Prabaharan.
As a young person I was drawn by the liberation
movement and the idea of Tamil Eelam. I needed a longer
period however, in fact some considerable years, to
watch and perceive the character of Prabaharan by
reading his actions. He was undoubtedly an indomitable
spirit. Each time I read about the man in the formative
days of the struggle, I would secretly weep there was a
blood-pull of overwhelming affection towards him. I
concealed my emotions, as one would, within me: I knew
instinctively in my spirit, that he is living an
underground, fugitive life in order to free his people
tomorrow.
I disciplined my self to not get hooked to the myths
and positive and negative spin in circulation about the
man. After Tantai Chelva's demise I refused
to consider any one to be my Talaivar. Post-Chelva it
was evident, most front men were tongue-twisting
lawyers. Talaivar is a serious word, not to be used too
hastily on any person, at least that is what I was
brought up to believe. It speaks of commitment and
loyalty - "Karpu". One is not expected to "prostitute"
their principles or values. Being part of a
sycophantic-lot was not my cup of tea. I knew the idea
of Eelam was much bigger than any one person. Until
2004 I did not feel comfortable within me to call
Prabaharan with the title "Talaivar" while of course
being an adherent of the movement. That connection was
established in the Vanni soil.
Crisis reveals character. T Sabaratnam's excellent series on
Prabaharan reveals the "Talaivar" -
"...Ramachandran told Pirapaharan their
predicament when they met in Chennai. "Is it a big
problem?" Ramachandran asked Pirapaharan. Pirapaharan
was furious. He said, "For you people who live in
London it is not a major problem. Here, in our
society, it is a serious problem. Who will permit
their daughters to join a movement in which leaders
molest their cadres?" Kandiah Urmila Devi, Urmila in
brief, was LTTE's first woman cadre. She was active
in the Colombo branch of the Tamil Youth Forum and
had worked closely with Uma. She was admitted into
the LTTE on the recommendation of Uma. Ramachandran,
whom I met many years later, said he had no answer to
Pirapaharan's query. He returned to London..."
Most Tamils know the history of the struggle. To the
Western mind-set or even to some easterners of loose
inclinations, moral lapse could be not a big deal,
after all. "Is it a problem?" It depends from where you
are viewing. Whether you are willing to exclude
morality and values while, stretching the idea of
secularism to the extreme breaking-limit. It is the
result of selfish materialistic extension of an idea by
the depletion of spirit and spirituality. It is like a
lifeless corpse a spiritless soul. Tragedy that.
Karpu is wider in its semantic field and the
overarching meaning is not strictly sexual. For rape
the Tamil word that was employed was Karpu-alippu
{destruction of Karpu} but the current word in usage is
more closely translated to the concept of Karpu:
Paliyal Val-Uravu.
One had been violently forced into having sex by
coercive force [palathkaram, vanmurai]. In other words,
the emphasis is placed on violation and violence. This
is the plight of the Tamil virgins in the hands of
Cingala forces. A molested woman or man whether a
virgin or other wise (unmarried or otherwise) was
sexually pure in spirit. Karpu is much more than a
biological damage and violent intrusion. A wife could
be raped by a husband! In essence, It speaks of the
spirit, sould and body of a whole person - not just
constricting to a physical act. When a uravu - a
relationship is forced upon it is a rape. One should
not underestimate the trauma. That is the purity, and
punitham of Karpu.
As the Lord Jesus pointed out, the moral breach -
adultery first happens in one's eye of lust. In Tamil
that is called apacam. This is an opposite of pacam and
anpu. One reads in the Gospel, when a woman was caught
in the act of adultery the men brought her to Jesus and
they wanted her to be stoned to death in front of him.
The crowd wanted to see Jesus' reaction. He said, a man
in the crowd who does not have sin let him throw the
first stone. None did. This speaks eloquently about
crowd-contagion. The trigger is in the "first-stone"
This is what occurs in gang rapes. But it does not
condone the sin of adultery. I often tend to ask why
the crowd didn't bring the man who was caught
red-handed also to be stoned. [Jesus did not aprove of
stoning] Aha! A societal breach!
I now turn to the paper that I mentioned earlier. It is
entitled: The Martial Feminism of Atel Palacinkam.
Herein below, I quote from it at length in order for
the reader to get the drift:
"...The word Karpu, however, is not mentioned, nor
is the concept in Atel Palacinkam'a books. It does
not appear at all. She has adopted, it seems, a
discrete, traditional and predictable silence on
these matters. One does not simply talk about Karpu.
Indeed, a direct attack on Karpu would have been
counter-productive because it would have been an
attack on a core value of traditional Tamil culture
supported by both men and women. Karpu is an ultimate
value for female behaviour. Besides Karpu need not
necessarily be attacked, because the suppression of
women is clearly observable in other terms, because
the suppression of women is clearly observable in
other terms, in spite of the removal of some
discriminatory restrictions like those education for
females. A refutation of the concept of Karpu would,
however, have shown the author's historical awareness
of values about female segregation in Yalppanam that
is, an awareness of the difficulty of eliminating
this concept..."(Schalk: Women fighters of the LTTE.
The Martial Feminism of Atel Palacinkam. South Asia
Research, Vol.14, No.2, autumn 1994, p 178)
Is Schalk discussing here of a Taliban
ruled Afghanistan or the Yalppanam we love and know
from our childhood? Sadly, I cannot recognize Yalpanam
- our cultural capital, in his writing at all. In my
discussion with Tamilini- LTTE Women's politicalwing
leader, she emphatically said that there is still room
for emancipation for Tamil women. There is no argument
in this regard. Yalpannam society is a highly religious
and conservative society but that is also a society yet
which has produced thousands of emancipated and
educated women even before pre-colonial period. These
highly intelligent and articulate women, during or
post-colonial times up to now have never ever voiced
that what the Tamils urgently require is Western-type
feminism. Far from it, our emancipatory concepts will
be unique to our own context, confirmed Tamilini. The
emphasis was that the Tamils are not willing to accept
importation of novel ideas for the sake of it. The text
will have to fit the context or else it will be just a
pretext.
Can any Jaffna wo/man [run! ask your grand mothers]
remotely identify women segregation? In my old age I am
yet to come across a Tamil who has experienced
segregation because of gender! If Schalk challenges
caste segregation and discrimination in Jaffna - then
the answer is, an overwhelming Yes. But when did Jaffna
segregate in terms of gender? Are women experiencing
"restrictions in education" in Jaffna? What a
preposterous idea!
Palacinkam's political perceptions have caused her to
act wisely in silence. It seems Schalk and Palacinkam
have viewed Karpu as a subversive tool of oppression.
The latter has been extremely cautious and sensible not
to impose one's view on a highly-civilized people of
mature culture. I have known many young Tamil
expatriate professional gentlemen in the West who have
returned to Eelam with the view to marrying young girls
who have gone through paliyal val-uravu during the IPKF
days or in the hands of Cingalavan forces. Of course,
these noble Tamils do not go around giving interviews
to write research papers! I have personally witnessed
numerous such weddings. It never entered the minds of
these noble men that their wives had no Karpu. What an
ill-mannered suggestion is that?
If karpu is suppression and segregation then is
permissiveness the answer? I do have to sadly admit in
shame that in recent years I have dealt with some cases
in which some crooked Tamil youngsters from Western
countries have gone to Eelam and married young girls
with fat dowries and returned to the West and
completely forgotten about their wives! But no culture
is immune to such small men. Schalk further comments in
the above mentioned paper thus:
"Even though she does not mention it, Palacinkam
implicitly rejects the ideal of Karpu by condemning
some of its social expressions and implications. The
value is connected with the social marginalisation of
raped women and widows, and with the daily
ideological control of men over women. The concept of
Karpu is also connected with the gender specific and
sex-connected concept of female power that is
generated by the exercise of Karpu. All these
expressions and implications, to which we must also
add former practice of widow burning, are condemned
by her. She does not, however, show that she is aware
that all have their base in the sophisticated and
manipulative concept of Karpu."
I doubt Schalk or Palacinkam are really being
serious about what they are talking about. Either both
have misunderstood each other or both trying to
liberate the Tamil women from a wrongly perceived
concept.
Having said that, one must agree without singling out
Tamil culture Karpu can be gender specific. The
emancipation of women is still being fought for in the
West. By no means is it complete or final. Multitude of
White men goes to Sri Lanka with full of lust and
perversion knowing that only a mere pittance could buy
him a virgin to be exploited and abused. Paedophiles of
the West expose destitute Sri Lankan children to
frightful indecency. Such fun loving sex-tourists might
have to think twice if they are allowed to engage in
such despicable pursuits in Eelam. Why? Eelam has high
moral standards. Recent developments in the East Eelam
with regard to Paliyal val-uravu by white NGO personnel
on fellow local workers and the production of 'Blue
movies' became a big issue, and rightly so. Do we
interpret that as suppression? Can any one point to
a Tamil Tiger ever raping a Cingala woman?
The concept of Karpu is not to be talked about
loosely because that is not considered a decent thing.
These are culturally sensitive matters. Tamils are a
very discreet people. Hence it should not be
interpreted as sign of oppression. It is hilarious
should some one compare widow burning [Sati] with
Karpu. The British Missionaries helped to abolish or
out law widow burning in 1829 in India and the Tamils
have had no qualms about it. Widow burning is by no
means unique to the Sub-continent. It is believed that
it was the Scythians who brought with them this custom
to India. It was practised by Egyptians, Greeks, Goths
and others. Not all Hindu communities in India
practised it.
This is the unfortunate result when foreign researchers
with their own pre-conceived misperceptions and biased
cultural glasses find them selves meddling in other
people's cultures. Many ancient original peoples in the
world faced and still do face such intrusive abuse. The
missionaries of old in spite of their many sacrificial
and great deeds failed miserably to understand deeply
spiritual concepts of indigenous cultures. The Colonial
frame of mind was filled with imperialistic modes of
understanding and the mercantile nature of the colonial
Christianity which brought with it the notion of racial
superiority and the condescending impulses to act as
"saviours" of the native population. Things have been
glossed over in a politically correct world but the
changing of attitudes have been by and large
superficial. Hence there is an enormous risk of such
fallacies being repeated in theory and practice in the
name of flimsy emancipation of academicians.
Schalk has written many informative papers. He has
insights in to both Tamil and Cinhala cultures. He has
to be appreciated for his contribution in regard to the
struggle from Cinhala hegemony. Nonetheless, the
serious mis-understanding and the heretical exposition
of Schalk is a vain attempt to promote a dilapidated
view on the concept of Karpu. It must be said, it is
not at all convincing. On a positive note however,
perhaps his intentions are good, but his liberative
thrust is alarmingly misplaced. The arguments do not
seem to hold any water.
I look forward to reading his other papers in hand. One
would think, it will prove to be different. Obviously.
In conclusion I quote below in sentamil, excerpts from
Arugan's Karpu:
அதாவது
கற்பு
என்பது
நம்பிக்கை.
கணவன்
மனைவியிடத்தில்
வைக்கும்
நம்பிக்கை
கற்பு.
தந்தை
மகளிடத்தில்வைக்கும்
நம்பிக்கை
கற்பு.
தாய்
மகனிடத்தில்
வைக்கும்
நம்பிக்கை
கற்பு.
நண்பன்
தன்
நண்பனிடம்
வைக்கும்
நம்பிக்கை
கற்பு.
காதலன்
காதலியிடம்
வைக்கும்
நம்பிக்கை
கற்பு.
காதலி
காதலனிடம்
வைக்கும்
நம்பிக்கை
கற்பு.
தொண்டர்கள்
தலைவனிடத்தில்
வைக்கும்
நம்பிக்கை
கற்பு.
அரசன்
மக்களிடம்
வைக்கும்
நம்பிக்கை
கற்பு.
மக்கள்
இறைவனிடம்
வைக்கும்
நம்பிக்கை
கற்பு.
…
இப்படிச்சொல்லிக்கொண்டே
போகலாம்…
இந்த
நம்பிக்கைக்கு
எப்போது
பங்கம்
வருகிறதோ
அப்போது
கற்பு
அங்கே
அழிக்கப்படுகிறது;
இதில்
ஆண் என்ன
பெண்
என்ன ?