On the 1st of June 2006, I had the privilege to read a poem written by
Arugan from Italy:
Karpu enpathu nambikkai.
It is Arugan’s poem which acted as catalyst to writing this piece. Some long
while ago, when I was working for my first degree, I wrote an essay on
Inculturation. The professor who marked the paper had the good sense to mark
it “A”. Bless his heart! However, this upper crust American, wrote in red
ink in the margins, with his indecipherable scribble. ‘Had you not discussed
the archaic concept of Karpoo I would have given you A*’
Westerners except in exceptional cases always seem to miss the point in
understanding alien and ancient cultures. I’ll say it again there are
exceptions a plenty. This is a considered opinion. Unwittingly perhaps they
seem to have not over come the ‘civilising concept’. There is an element of
sub-conscious feeling of superiority. Except a few avant-garde
intellectuals, most western academicians seem to think, any thing foreign
has to be redeemed from its primitive ignorance. Hence there is a sense of
false altruistic propulsion to emancipate the under-developed souls from
oppression. Of course, in every culture – whether Western or Eastern there
are both good and bad. But it is utterly ludicrous or blatant arrogance for
some one to think, let alone suggest, that the Tamils of Eelam - an ancient
stock of people, should be emancipated from the concept of Karpu.
Karpu is a core value of the Tamil culture. Any good society will promote
freedom and liberty. But in the name of freedom, one should not give way to
license. Licentious living has produced far greater evil. Most ancient
Eastern religions including Christianity [by the way it is not a Western
religion] advance the concept of human freedom and responsibility. No
religion in its right mind, promotes a permissive society nor a repressive
society. None should misinterpret as if I’m hinting to promote illiberal
restrictions on personal freedom.
I have been in familial contact with Scandinavia and its splendid people
since 1972. I was told by Westerners [both Europeans and North Americans]
that Sweden and its adjoining countries have permissive societies. I felt
disgusted when I learnt that in Denmark even paedophiles could run their own
website in the name of liberty and free-speech. I cannot comment further
because only a sick mind would engage in such atrocity. It is indeed
laughable when academicians with their own cultural-glasses, bias,
vested-interests and in-bread prejudices try to judge and interpret ancient
cultures. If some one were to say casteism, dowry system, oppression of
weaker sections of society, child-labour to name only a few - that all these
are oppressive and must be abolished. Most decent Tamils would say. Yes, of
course yes! Karpu – modesty, chastity, loyalty, beauty, godliness,
self-control, virginity in terms of spirituality etc etc ─ these qualities
are oppressive? One could be childish or churlish in advancing such an
ill-conceived position.
The Tamils want a free society but not a permissive society.
In my recent cursory readings I found an informative paper written by a
Sweden-based academician who has produced some good materials regarding
Tamil struggle. I shall refer to that paper later but first a word about the
Tamil leader Mr Prabaharan.
As a young person I was drawn by the liberation movement and the idea of
Tamil Eelam. I needed a longer period however, in fact some considerable
years, to watch and perceive the character of Prabaharan by reading his
actions. He was undoubtedly an indomitable spirit. Each time I read about
the man in the formative days of the struggle, I would secretly weep there
was a blood-pull of overwhelming affection towards him. I concealed my
emotions, as one would, within me: I knew instinctively in my spirit, that
he is living an underground, fugitive life in order to free his people
tomorrow.
I disciplined my self to not get hooked to the myths and positive and
negative spin in circulation about the man. After
Tantai Chelva’s demise I refused
to consider any one to be my Talaivar. Post-Chelva it was evident, most
front men were tongue-twisting lawyers. Talaivar is a serious word, not to
be used too hastily on any person, at least that is what I was brought up to
believe. It speaks of commitment and loyalty – “Karpu”. One is not expected
to “prostitute” their principles or values. Being part of a sycophantic-lot
was not my cup of tea. I knew the idea of Eelam was much bigger than any one
person. Until 2004 I did not feel comfortable within me to call Prabaharan
with the title "Talaivar" while of course being an adherent of the movement.
That connection was established in the Vanni soil.
Crisis reveals character.
T Sabaratnam’s excellent series on Prabaharan reveals the “Talaivar” -
"...Ramachandran told Pirapaharan their predicament when they met in
Chennai. “Is it a big problem?” Ramachandran asked Pirapaharan.
Pirapaharan was furious. He said, “For you people who live in London it
is not a major problem. Here, in our society, it is a serious problem.
Who will permit their daughters to join a movement in which leaders
molest their cadres?” Kandiah Urmila Devi, Urmila in brief, was LTTE’s
first woman cadre. She was active in the Colombo branch of the Tamil
Youth Forum and had worked closely with Uma. She was admitted into the
LTTE on the recommendation of Uma. Ramachandran, whom I met many years
later, said he had no answer to Pirapaharan’s query. He returned to
London..."
Most Tamils know the history of the struggle. To the Western mind-set or
even to some easterners of loose inclinations, moral lapse could be not a
big deal, after all. “Is it a problem?” It depends from where you are
viewing. Whether you are willing to exclude morality and values while,
stretching the idea of secularism to the extreme breaking-limit. It is the
result of selfish materialistic extension of an idea by the depletion of
spirit and spirituality. It is like a lifeless corpse a spiritless soul.
Tragedy that.
Karpu is wider in its semantic field and the overarching meaning is not
strictly sexual. For rape the Tamil word that was employed was Karpu-alippu
{destruction of Karpu} but the current word in usage is more closely
translated to the concept of Karpu: Paliyal Val-Uravu.
One had been violently forced into having sex by coercive force
[palathkaram, vanmurai]. In other words, the emphasis is placed on violation
and violence. This is the plight of the Tamil virgins in the hands of
Cingala forces. A molested woman or man whether a virgin or other wise
(unmarried or otherwise) was sexually pure in spirit. Karpu is much more
than a biological damage and violent intrusion. A wife could be raped by a
husband! In essence, It speaks of the spirit, sould and body of a whole
person - not just constricting to a physical act. When a uravu - a
relationship is forced upon it is a rape. One should not underestimate the
trauma. That is the purity, and punitham of Karpu.
As the Lord Jesus pointed out, the moral breach - adultery first happens in
one’s eye of lust. In Tamil that is called apacam. This is an opposite of
pacam and anpu. One reads in the Gospel, when a woman was caught in the act
of adultery the men brought her to Jesus and they wanted her to be stoned to
death in front of him. The crowd wanted to see Jesus’ reaction. He said, a
man in the crowd who does not have sin let him throw the first stone. None
did. This speaks eloquently about crowd-contagion. The trigger is in the
“first-stone” This is what occurs in gang rapes. But it does not condone the
sin of adultery. I often tend to ask why the crowd didn’t bring the man who
was caught red-handed also to be stoned. [Jesus did not aprove of stoning]
Aha! A societal breach!
I now turn to the paper that I mentioned earlier. It is entitled: The
Martial Feminism of Atel Palacinkam. Herein below, I quote from it at length
in order for the reader to get the drift:
"...The word Karpu, however, is not mentioned, nor is the concept in
Atel Palacinkam’a books. It does not appear at all. She has adopted, it
seems, a discrete, traditional and predictable silence on these matters.
One does not simply talk about Karpu. Indeed, a direct attack on Karpu
would have been counter-productive because it would have been an attack
on a core value of traditional Tamil culture supported by both men and
women. Karpu is an ultimate value for female behaviour. Besides Karpu
need not necessarily be attacked, because the suppression of women is
clearly observable in other terms, because the suppression of women is
clearly observable in other terms, in spite of the removal of some
discriminatory restrictions like those education for females. A
refutation of the concept of Karpu would, however, have shown the
author’s historical awareness of values about female segregation in
Yalppanam that is, an awareness of the difficulty of eliminating this
concept..."(Schalk: Women fighters of the LTTE. The Martial Feminism of
Atel Palacinkam. South Asia Research, Vol.14, No.2, autumn 1994, p 178)
Is Schalk discussing here of a Taliban ruled Afghanistan or the Yalppanam
we love and know from our childhood? Sadly, I cannot recognize Yalpanam -
our cultural capital, in his writing at all. In my discussion with Tamilini-
LTTE Women’s politicalwing leader, she emphatically said that there is still
room for emancipation for Tamil women. There is no argument in this regard.
Yalpannam society is a highly religious and conservative society but that is
also a society yet which has produced thousands of emancipated and educated
women even before pre-colonial period. These highly intelligent and
articulate women, during or post-colonial times up to now have never ever
voiced that what the Tamils urgently require is Western-type feminism. Far
from it, our emancipatory concepts will be unique to our own context,
confirmed Tamilini. The emphasis was that the Tamils are not willing to
accept importation of novel ideas for the sake of it. The text will have to
fit the context or else it will be just a pretext.
Can any Jaffna wo/man [run! ask your grand mothers] remotely identify women
segregation? In my old age I am yet to come across a Tamil who has
experienced segregation because of gender! If Schalk challenges caste
segregation and discrimination in Jaffna – then the answer is, an
overwhelming Yes. But when did Jaffna segregate in terms of gender? Are
women experiencing "restrictions in education" in Jaffna? What a
preposterous idea!
Palacinkam’s political perceptions have caused her to act wisely in silence.
It seems Schalk and Palacinkam have viewed Karpu as a subversive tool of
oppression. The latter has been extremely cautious and sensible not to
impose one’s view on a highly-civilized people of mature culture. I have
known many young Tamil expatriate professional gentlemen in the West who
have returned to Eelam with the view to marrying young girls who have gone
through paliyal val-uravu during the IPKF days or in the hands of Cingalavan
forces. Of course, these noble Tamils do not go around giving interviews to
write research papers! I have personally witnessed numerous such weddings.
It never entered the minds of these noble men that their wives had no Karpu.
What an ill-mannered suggestion is that?
If karpu is suppression and segregation then is permissiveness the answer? I
do have to sadly admit in shame that in recent years I have dealt with some
cases in which some crooked Tamil youngsters from Western countries have
gone to Eelam and married young girls with fat dowries and returned to the
West and completely forgotten about their wives! But no culture is immune to
such small men. Schalk further comments in the above mentioned paper thus:
"Even though she does not mention it, Palacinkam implicitly rejects
the ideal of Karpu by condemning some of its social expressions and
implications. The value is connected with the social marginalisation of
raped women and widows, and with the daily ideological control of men
over women. The concept of Karpu is also connected with the gender
specific and sex-connected concept of female power that is generated by
the exercise of Karpu. All these expressions and implications, to which
we must also add former practice of widow burning, are condemned by her.
She does not, however, show that she is aware that all have their base
in the sophisticated and manipulative concept of Karpu."
I doubt Schalk or Palacinkam are really being serious about what they are
talking about. Either both have misunderstood each other or both trying to
liberate the Tamil women from a wrongly perceived concept.
Having said that, one must agree without singling out Tamil culture Karpu
can be gender specific. The emancipation of women is still being fought for
in the West. By no means is it complete or final. Multitude of White men
goes to Sri Lanka with full of lust and perversion knowing that only a mere
pittance could buy him a virgin to be exploited and abused. Paedophiles of
the West expose destitute Sri Lankan children to frightful indecency. Such
fun loving sex-tourists might have to think twice if they are allowed to
engage in such despicable pursuits in Eelam. Why? Eelam has high moral
standards. Recent developments in the East Eelam with regard to Paliyal
val-uravu by white NGO personnel on fellow local workers and the production
of 'Blue movies' became a big issue, and rightly so. Do we interpret that as
suppression? Can any one point to a Tamil Tiger ever raping a Cingala
woman?
The concept of Karpu is not to be talked about loosely because that is
not considered a decent thing. These are culturally sensitive matters.
Tamils are a very discreet people. Hence it should not be interpreted as
sign of oppression. It is hilarious should some one compare widow burning
[Sati] with Karpu. The British Missionaries helped to abolish or out law
widow burning in 1829 in India and the Tamils have had no qualms about it.
Widow burning is by no means unique to the Sub-continent. It is believed
that it was the Scythians who brought with them this custom to India. It was
practised by Egyptians, Greeks, Goths and others. Not all Hindu communities
in India practised it.
This is the unfortunate result when foreign researchers with their own
pre-conceived misperceptions and biased cultural glasses find them selves
meddling in other people’s cultures. Many ancient original peoples in the
world faced and still do face such intrusive abuse. The missionaries of old
in spite of their many sacrificial and great deeds failed miserably to
understand deeply spiritual concepts of indigenous cultures. The Colonial
frame of mind was filled with imperialistic modes of understanding and the
mercantile nature of the colonial Christianity which brought with it the
notion of racial superiority and the condescending impulses to act as
"saviours" of the native population. Things have been glossed over in a
politically correct world but the changing of attitudes have been by and
large superficial. Hence there is an enormous risk of such fallacies being
repeated in theory and practice in the name of flimsy emancipation of
academicians.
Schalk has written many informative papers. He has insights in to both Tamil
and Cinhala cultures. He has to be appreciated for his contribution in
regard to the struggle from Cinhala hegemony. Nonetheless, the serious
mis-understanding and the heretical exposition of Schalk is a vain attempt
to promote a dilapidated view on the concept of Karpu. It must be said, it
is not at all convincing. On a positive note however, perhaps his intentions
are good, but his liberative thrust is alarmingly misplaced. The arguments
do not seem to hold any water.
I look forward to reading his other papers in hand. One would think, it will
prove to be different. Obviously. In conclusion I quote below in sentamil,
excerpts from Arugan’s Karpu:
அதாவது கற்பு என்பது நம்பிக்கை.
கணவன் மனைவியிடத்தில் வைக்கும் நம்பிக்கை கற்பு.
தந்தை மகளிடத்தில்வைக்கும் நம்பிக்கை கற்பு.
தாய் மகனிடத்தில் வைக்கும் நம்பிக்கை கற்பு.
நண்பன் தன் நண்பனிடம் வைக்கும் நம்பிக்கை கற்பு.
காதலன் காதலியிடம் வைக்கும் நம்பிக்கை கற்பு.
காதலி காதலனிடம் வைக்கும் நம்பிக்கை கற்பு.
தொண்டர்கள் தலைவனிடத்தில் வைக்கும் நம்பிக்கை கற்பு.
அரசன் மக்களிடம் வைக்கும் நம்பிக்கை கற்பு.
மக்கள் இறைவனிடம் வைக்கும் நம்பிக்கை கற்பு.
…
இப்படிச்சொல்லிக்கொண்டே போகலாம்…
இந்த நம்பிக்கைக்கு எப்போது பங்கம் வருகிறதோ அப்போது கற்பு அங்கே
அழிக்கப்படுகிறது;
இதில் ஆண் என்ன பெண் என்ன ?